Don’t plunge into more sexy chat until you know that the person you are chatting with is also interested in moving into this direction.
It is quite easy to misunderstand the tone of an SMS and believe it is of an overtly sexual nature when it is not.
IImagine you’re flirting over the phone and you come out with a witty comment but the man or woman you’re talking to takes 15 minutes or more to respond. With SMS chat, you normally have more than 15 minutes to respond, however, responding a few hours later can make the SMS conversation fizzle out. With SMS, no one wants a really serious conversation.
It’s all about short and witty texts to make each party laugh and smile.
If the chat turns more serious, it can make the conversation dry up and also change the tone of a potential relationship.
It is hard to get any serious thoughts across via a short text message anyway.
Why not use some of our advice during your next SMS chat?
If you follow our tips, you will have fun chatting by text message, whatever the topic!
The boundaries of what to say and send in text messages are not always clear.
When using SMS to chat, make sure you understand the tone of the texts you are receiving.
You will need to understand the pace and direction of the SMS conversation.
Many people go in all guns blazing and put the other party off.
Reading and understanding the text message keeps your chatting partner engaged.