Holiday dating etiquette
With the spirit of hookup culture—play it cool—guiding texting behavior, no one wants to be the first to express interest, state preferences, or communicate needs.
Doing so requires risk and vulnerability, with the possibility of interest being unrequited.
Including a wedding website is ideal, but again, not necessary.
At this point an RSVP shouldn't be expected—after all, this is the correspondence that gives guests an opportunity to figure out what their RSVP will be when the formal invitation arrives. This is your opportunity to let your style as a couple really shine, or try out a theme you love but are hesitant to commit to just yet.
Maybe I’d forward a text or two of his to a friend, followed with “What could this mean??
And if you're marrying during high travel times like a holiday weekend or summer in a beach town, a save-the-date is an expected courtesy. Just to the people you want to come to your wedding.
Of course, you don't have to send one if you don't want to, but it will give guests a heads up on your wedding plans. As a general rule, it's best to start spreading the news around six to eight months prior to the ceremony (even earlier for a faraway destination or holiday weekend). Even if you've already received verbal confirmations from certain guests, you should still send them a save-the-date (.
Yet, according to attachment research, having a secure partnership is empowering to our individuality, known as the dependency paradox.
Security is established when we build trust with our partners, through consistent communication patterns, validation, and emotional availability.